Saturday, 23 May 2009

The New South African Police - Proof of a New South Africa

Often we just simply don't notice the changes going on around us and believe me they are happening and they are both radical and amazing. 

I grew up with a police force I was ashamed of and I was scared of. They inflicted the views of a racist, sexist, bigoted government.

When I ran a nightclub in Cape Town called "The Mix", we were raided and arrested so often it became a joke all because we allowed peoples of different skin colours to frequent the same place and drink and dance together, rights we now take totally for granted.

As a gay man, I knew to watch my back and that given the slightest chance I would be locked up and prosecuted for being with other men. A once good friend was once forced to move away from a park bench when he was accused of loitering. All he was doing was sitting on a bench on the Sea Point Promenade.

Before the days of the Internet and Gaydar and Facebook, you either met someone at a nightclub, through friends or you even cruised "The Wall" which was a stretch along the Sea Point Promenade to pick someone up. if you wanted a "Rent" boy you went either to Burg Street in the city or you went to the Cape Town or Rondebosch Station at night. You lived in fear as the police targeted "gay" spots and lifestyles. You lived in fear of being arrested and beaten up just for being gay. We forget that the previous government did not look very favourably on homosexuality.

Sure things have changed in our country and crime seems much higher but trust me we had crime back then and often the crime was perpetrated by or at least sanctioned by the Police.

As manyf people already know, last week I was hijacked at Gun point together with a friend of mine. Two men came at us with guns on the boundary between Kenilworth and Claremont and forced us out of my car ensuring us they they would not hesitate to shoot us if we did not do exactly as they said. We complied and my heart sank as I watched a villain drive away in my car along  with some of my prised belongings.

Then began what I thought was to be a nightmare in trying to get assistance. Using my friends mobile phone which he had shoved into the back of his jeans when the robbers were asking us for our personal effects, I attempted to call 112, the cellular emergency number. Let me advise you right now, DO NOT BOTHER WITH 112 on a mobile. The system they have is just way to slow, cumbersome and ineffective to use when you are in a crises. Save the police and other important numbers to your phone. Rather dial information and get the number for the closest police station. That will work! 112 DOES NOT WORK!

After trying for a few minutes to use the 112 system, we rather used one of my friends neighbours land line, we got hold of the Claremont police station and asked for help. The police woman efficiently took down the details of where we were and then began taking other details. As she battled with getting my surname down I became slightly irritated thinking "while you are asking me all these question the bastards are getting away with my stuff." I was wrong because whilst still on the phone to the police station, the police began to arrive. First a police van and then more and then the detectives began to arrive. I was amazed! 

Five minutes after my call there was total controlled, efficient action.  Our statements were taken whilst other police started to disseminate the information on cell phones and police radios. I learned that I was the 3rd victim of hijacking in that area that night and that two the other two vehicles had already been found parked in Rondebosch. I told the police that my mobile phone was still in the vehicle and that it was still on. An inspector immediately placed a trace on my phone and they began tracing my things around Cape Town.

Not for one second did our being gay, in any way arise as an issue. We openly described one of the identifying features of my car as being a gay rainbow sticker on the back. When asking how we had reacted to the hijackers by friend responded by telling them that "I am a gay boy and I'm hardly going to try anything stupid in a situation like this."Not one snigger or even a look came our way. The police continued to do thier jobs. I felt safe again. I felt I could trust this new police force. I knew and could see that they knew their work and they were doing it well for me.

The next thing we started getting sms's from the police to notify us that our case had be lodged and that my car had been listed as missing. We were still at the scene and this data began coming through. I was so impressed.

Another detective arrived and we were shown mugshots of criminals to see if we might recognise any of our attackers which unfortunately we were unable to do.

Then the police came and suggested that we take trauma counselling which they offered us. At first I said I did not need it but after advice from ALL my Friends changed my mind and spoke with the Claremont police counsellor. Again I was totally impressed and I will be going back for more counselling to deal with this.

The whole week I kept in touch with the police regarding my goods and my car.

Yesterday afternoon, just as I'd given up any hope of seeing my car or goods again, the police called and left a message on Tom's phone to say, "Please call to make an appointment to come and identify your vehicle."

Let me end this by saying, "I am impressed! VERY impressed!" Well done SAP!!!!! Well done and thanks!!!!

Tuesday, 05 May 2009

Pink Loerie disappointments

At the last minute I decided to attend The Pink Loerie in Knysna this year. After being turned onto the idea by a friend, I desperately asked around to get a friend to share the petrol costs.

 We drove up excited for what was going to be on offer. Having never been before I had no idea as to what to expect but knowing that people travel from all over the country as well as some people come from all over the work to attend, I was expecting something akin to the Mardi Gras in Sydney, Australia.  

Let me start off by saying that I did have fun and a lot of it at that ...... However:  
Keeping in mind that MOST people travelled long distances to get to Knysna, I would have expected better organisation and more glitz from this potentially amazing event.  
I found most of the event organisation to be amateur at best. Nothing went smoothly. I could not hear the announcers. I did not hear the band, "The Magic of Pegasus". The contestants in the Mr. Mardi Gras contest were unrehearsed.

I do need to say that I take my hat off to the event organisers for doing this but I really think they need to get a professional MC to host the events. They need to hire a decent sound crew and PA system and decent sound equipment for bands etc. Things need to start when advertised.

I really believe that albeit that Zanzibar was amazing fun as a dance and party venue, it is not good for bands and pageants. It could be improved with a decent sound rig.

Rumours abound about money grabbing and profiteering and I unwittingly became involved in the politics of the event and choose to back out of that subject.

I cannot believe that the short comings are the result of financial shortages. If an arm band allowing entrance to all the events were to be sold long before the whole event in all the major cities, I really believe people would be ready to subscribe. This would help with  ensuring the quality of the events. Looking at the Booklet, one can see it is a major source of advertising revenue.

On discussing the booklet, I also found the basic errors to be shoddy and once again showing the lack of attention to detail. Mr Mardi Gras 2008???? Then the website still has the program for 2008!!!!!! Attention to detail guys!!!!!!!!

The Pink Loerie could be a world class event! Why isn't it?

Thursday, 20 November 2008

Don't choose Christmas Hell

Christmas is supposed to be a time of joy, love and celebration. It is however a period of greed, commercialism and gluttony.
Animals are reared in a cruel manner to be slaughtered, to end up on tables around the world and served up as a meal in celebration of this holiday.

We distance ourselves from this murder of living beings and choose to identify this form of food as meat. We unwrap it from it's plastic packaging and prepare it never thinking of the life that has been lost. Then we go and pet our dogs, cats and caged birds. It was a living breathing feeling being.

This animal had as much of a right to life as your pets!

I have eaten meat in my life and I have to say that I did love the taste and in some ways I even can say that I miss the taste. I can however not justify that as an excuse to eat animals. As a thinking human I have the sense of discretion to make a decision to eat meat or not to eat meat. I choose NOT to eat meat.

This link (http://www.peta.org/cooking-mama/index.asp) is a game from PETA to try and get people to realise that animals ARE living feeling beings.....

Anyone who has ever kept a bird as a pet knows just how loving they can be and how intelligent they are and that they do feel fear and pain.

All I am asking you to do is think about this and make an informed decision as to how you want to celebrate the life of Christ.

Some interesting links:


Wednesday, 05 November 2008

Layout Change

I have added a slightly changed look to my Blog. I hope you like it....

:-)

My Blog has moved!

Due to the current financial climate and cashflow issues, as of last week I have moved my Blog from http://www.drsirius.co.za/ to http://drsiriusct.blogspot.com/

This will have no effect on the content, save the fact that my initial Old Blog is no longer available at all.

I noticed that I have not had a chance to post an entry since May this year and it is my intention to correct that. The entries that were posted to Facebook last week were reposted due to my importing the new address into Facebook notes.

The other site you are free to browse is my online pictures which can be found at http://picasaweb.google.com/drsiriusct as there are far more pictures posted there than on Facebook.

So watch this space for new Blog entries in the near future.

Huggles!!!